Are you stuck in a Twin Flame no contact phase and want to know what to do about it?
We feel your pain – this is a difficult and confusing time for you, and you are worried about your future together.
This tends to happen during the separation stage of the relationship, between the crisis and reunion.
It doesn’t always happen, but it often does.
Why Has My Twin Flame Gone No Contact?
There could be any number of reasons that they could give you for them ignoring you completely, but none of them are likely to be the truth even if you could get in contact to hear them.
The truth is that they have cut you out because they are running from the relationship.
This makes them your Runner, and you their Chaser.
This is a common dynamic during this stage and to be expected, but it doesn’t always involve a complete end to communication.
If it has, then it is because they are scared.
The power of your connection has overwhelmed them on a level deeper than they are used to.
This harsh behavior causes a sort of “fight or flight” response that causes them either to lash out at or run away from the source of their anxiety.
It’s entirely understandable if you stop and think about it.
The raw energy of your karmic connection, all the idiosyncrasies that make it unique, the spiritual nature of your path together.
All piled on at once, you can see how it might scare the uninitiated away.
They need space to process the situation. That’s why they have gone no contact on you, and that’s why you have to leave them to it for the time being.
What To Do About Twin Flame No Contact?
The absolute last thing you should do is keep trying to talk to them.
When they have asked that you leave them alone – or delivered that message in one way or another – it is absolutely on you to do as they have asked.
You wouldn’t want them to go against your wishes if it were the other way around.
Fair enough, you do belong together. Fair enough, there is something more at stake than just another relationship.
And fair enough, your lives would be much happier if you were with each other right now.
You are right. They need to realise this on their own.
So what can you do? Well, we said you shouldn’t try to talk to them, not that you shouldn’t try to give them a friendly nudge in the right direction.
Twin Flame telepathy is a very real phenomenon that can allow you to keep yourself as a part of each other’s lives while maintaining no contact on the physical plane.
All karmic partners have it and are able to tune in to each other’s energies to deliver a message of support.
Use this to your advantage, delivering messages of support and love every day until they return to you.
Try to help them see that they are reacting in fear, that you could have something great together if they could just overcome whatever anxieties they are wrestling with.
There is a purpose to this separation, and it is so that both of you can clear away the remaining old wounds and traumas that still have an effect on you today.
Support them in doing that, encouraging them to face their flaws with courage and forgiveness.
And then turn your attention to yourself.
Twin Flame No Contact Opportunity For Growth
Although you might not be running scared from the relationship, you could still be the blockage if you aren’t careful.
Too many Chasers sabotage their own chances by thinking that only their Runner has issues to address before the path for the two of you is clear.
You have an excellent opportunity for growth – but it is more than an opportunity, it is also a responsibility.
Readying yourself for the reunion is all about addressing old wounds and traumas that are still having an effect on you.
You might not even be fully aware of the emotional scars holding you back until you really sit down and think about it.
Establish a regular meditation schedule and ensure that you are addressing imbalances in your chakra system.
Try Merkaba Activation if you haven’t already – this technique can really open doors for you spiritually and helps to focus your mind on the areas in which you need to improve.
Rather than giving up control to the Runner, seize what control you can take for yourself.
You might not be able to change how they are acting, but you can control the path you take.
By doing so you will take a step closer to a reunion.
Ending Twin Flame No Contact Phase
The trick to ending this phase of your relationship is to not try too hard to end this phase of your relationship.
It sounds counter-intuitive, but it’s very much like a grazed knee – yes, it itches like hell, but if you pick at it then it will just hurt more and take longer to heal.
Time heals all wounds. Let time take its course.
That being said, there are certainly things you can do to bring this stage to an end. In fact, we have already gone through them.
Attending to your own needs will bring you personal growth and turn you into a happier, healthier person.
Through the phenomenon of shared energy, this change in your mood will also have an effect on your Twin Flame.
As you become more balanced they will begin to feel more balanced, helping them to come to terms with whatever is causing them to run.
It isn’t a cast-iron guarantee, but this is the best thing you can do right now.
Learn to be alone, learn to be happy that way, and whether they come back to you or not you will be the happier for having done so.
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I’m a Bi-sexual/Pansexual man and I think I’ve found my Twin Flame, whose a Gay man. Allow me to give you some backstory before addressing the current issue. I’ll actually start right before we met to give you details about how things were on my end.
It was 2014 and I had just gotten out of Bootcamp in September 2013. I like to believe that I’m a Spiritual individual and very much aware of “universal guidance” and “synchronicities”. Anywho, I was very lonely and in a stage where I truly wanted a partner to share my love with. This was not a desperate phase where I was latching onto everyone I had come across. I can remember that I was surprisingly patient with this desire and was going to use the vacant time to humble myself and allow myself to know when I found them. The more I focused on it, I came to realize the numbers 143 and 183 were becoming very familiar in my day-to-day endeavors. And I mean, I was noticing these numbers in various combinations (314,413,813,318, etc) at least 4 to5 times a day. I knew right then this was synchronicity, but for the life of me couldn’t determine what they could be referring to.
Fast forward to July 2014, on a random Tuesday night, I and an old friend of mine go to a Gay Bar called Pink. We noticed it was a ghost town before making it inside completely. Once I finally got a glimpse of the atmosphere, there my “Twin Flame” was to my immediate left sitting alone at the bar on his cell phone. His back was facing me, but there was something that drew me to him immediately, but I didn’t show any concern. After a few cigarettes and a beer, I saw him come from the back door of the club in just boxer briefs and a tray of drinks to serve. He followed me quite a lot that night and even convinced me to take 3 jello shots. I couldn’t take my eyes off him, and he was attracted to me big time and wanted to get me sloppy drunk lol. Anyway, I wound up getting his number before leaving the club and linked with him the same night. We did end up having sex, and from what he said he wasn’t into body hair, which I have, but it was just something about mine that he was drawn to. From my perspective, he was everything I ever wanted in a guy, literally perfect! We didn’t make much contact after that, because he later told me he didn’t want me to think he was using me. That time apart drove me crazy!! I just couldn’t believe that I had found a guy who fits what I wanted so perfectly during my search for love. We got back into contact a month or so later and started seeing each other every day.
A few details about why I believe we’re Twin Flames:
I theorized that the number, in the right combination, corresponds to his birthday (4/13) and my birth time (8:31).
– During the first 2-3 week separation, I was searching through the yearbook and saw that we went to the same high school. He started in 2012 and I left in 2011, and he’s also a twin like me.
– Since 2009, we had stayed less than a mile away from each other without knowing.
– We are EXTREMELY different physically, but his strengths correspond to how I only dream of attaining and vice versa. He just doesn’t see it as well as I do.
– Since being with him, there has been a desperate need to establish a better foundation with my “higher self”. He really stirs my desire for understanding what is needed out of this life.
– After 8 years, several separations, and a few inexcusable actions, we always are drawn back to each other with open arms and forgiveness.
Now for the current sitch. I’m living in Bossier City, Louisiana and he’s in Natchitoches, Louisiana, which is an hour or so apart currently. A month and a half ago, I noticed he was being very distant and not as loving as usual. At this point, I kinda know what it means, but his words were, “He feels single lately”, and that we’re caught in a loop where we separate and come back to the same dysfunction as always and he feels that he can’t be there for anyone emotionally right now. I feel it’s bullshit and he went and got involved with that guy from last year again, We had been arguing a lot in recent months due to a feeling of stagnation, and he recently got involved with someone else exactly a year ago without telling me, so there are several past wounds and trust issues that need to be fixed. We separated but he came back 2 months later. Now he tells me that he just lives in the moment and can’t help himself around cute guys sometimes. All this is understandable due to past experiences, but the only thing that boils my blood is his lack of communication. So I agreed and blocked him on all social media platforms. He’s reached out subliminally, but this time I haven’t responded to him at all and I feel very lost right now. He texted me yesterday saying he saw me walking while he was in Bossier yesterday, so I know he feels some type of way, but it’s very difficult to know this go-round. There are many things we said we wanted to accomplish, but couldn’t seem to do while we were together. I’ve been using this time to meditate even harder and better myself because I’m a complete wreck right now. He makes me so angry at how unemotional he tries to be but always ends up claiming things I already specify in the midst of his shenanigans In the past weeks of our separation I’ve been feeling very empathetic and even have random moments where I just cry for no reason. Whenever I think about us, the relationship, or where things could end up I see the numbers 143 and 138. For what it’s worth, I’m a Sagittarius and he’s an Aires.
In closing, I’m hoping the random bursts of expressed emotion are a reflection of how he’s feeling or experiencing because, in my heart and soul, I believe he’s just as lost as I am, but I also sense there’s some growth that needs to happen right now on both ends for sure. I like to think I have more control over the situation because I have this understanding and I’m choosing not to reply to anything he says at the moment, but I just wanted to hear your thoughts or feedback concerning this? Have you any specific advice regarding this? I’m coming to understand I need to grow more, but he needs to develop and mature more in the areas of what everything we have actually means to him.